There is alway a way....

"Where there is a will, there is a way"

 Yet another teaching from my school days that has stayed with me .......challenged many a time over the years, more recently than before, but still mostly unshakeable!


There is always a way - may not be the way we want, or even the conventional (or in some cases, even legal) but there is almost always, a way....and it is for us to find it through perseverance, patience, resilience. But most important is to believe in this - that there is a way out - only then can our minds gain the strength to persevere, to be patient, to bounce back.....

Situations sometime seem hopeless but as they say - you either sink in these kinds of whirlpools in life or you gather yourself, believe there is a way out - through faith or science - and give it all you have to burst out of that downward cycle. The last thing you need in these times in self pity - or in fact the pity of others ....that is like tying weights around your feet and expecting to be able to lift yourself out of the mess!! 

Optimism is for me, a way of life - yes it has taken many a beating, but it is still unshakable... and sometimes, there really isn't another way!

So, I close my eyes, thank God for all that I have and firmly believe that He will help me climb every mountain, show me the way or give me the courage to leap into the unknown and unclear future knowing that I will not fall, as He will catch me in his arms or atleast cushion my fall.



To all my friends who may be going through rough times, and these times are crazy for many I know, hang in there but believe that there is a way out - that will give you the strength to carry on.


Love....Live....Believe!

 

Dubai Marina

7.16 am - June 27, 2013 

Comments

  1. Chatterjee R.27 June 2013 at 06:14

    being optimistic is the way out!!! lovely read, Bubli di!!

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